Sunday, August 22, 2010

Routines at 9 months

I joke with my friends that these are not Kayden's routines, it is really MY routine.  It's all fun and games for him, and abit of work for me to do. With the help of a popular parenting book, I have followed the suggested routines with HUGE success. We got him onto the routine when he was 4 months old. He used to wake up at least once each night. Shortly after I put him on the routines, he slept right through the night.

And now, he wakes up and goes down for his sleep at expected times. I find it alot easier to plan a trip out, or to book for an appointment knowing what times he will be awake and ready to head out the door.

7am - Kayden wakes up. (He is almost like clockwork, plus or minus 5 to 10 minutes) Hubby gives Kayden a nappy change and his first milk feed of the day. Kayden goes straight back to sleep. By 7.15am he is fast asleep again.

10am - Kayden is awake and ready to start his day. Another nappy change and some playtime with me.


11am - I give Kayden his second morning milk feed.

12Noon - Lunchtime. He sits in his high chair, and I give him some finger foods (snow peas, carrot sticks, broccoli,etc) to feed himself with while waiting for his lunch to be ready. When it is ready,I feed him and have my own lunch after.

1pm - Kayden goes down for a nap while I wash up after lunch.

1.30pm - I do abit of housework, or some me time while Kayden is still sleeping.


2pm - Kayden is awake. Playtime.

3pm - Another milk feed, and maybe some afternoon tea of cruskits or some fruits.

3.30 pm - We head off for an afternoon walk if the weather is looking good outside.


4.30pm -  Back from our walk, I give Kayden some books and toys, sit down with him for a bit and then jump in for a quick shower while he's playing.

 5.30pm - I prep his dinner and leave it to cook while I give Kayden a bath.

6pm - Kayden's dinnertime. Sometimes he has some plain yoghurt with some fruit purees in it.

7pm  - Dinner with the rest of the family. If we're lucky, Kayden would be asleep by now. If not, he joins us at the dinner table in his high chair. Although these days, I prefer if he stays awake at this time as if he sleeps now, its like a power nap for him. Otherwise, almost for sure, he will be up by 9pm, wide eyed and fully awake for more play till late! We watch some TV together, read, play, generally just spending some family time together.

8pm - Kayden has his last milk feed of the day. 

9pm - Kayden goes to sleep for the night.

10pm -  Hubby and I spend some time together, catch up on some gossip and maybe a late night movie on some days.

11pm - Lights out.

4 comments:

  1. hi kelly, could you advise on the title of the parenting book, please? My baby is 5 mths. Is it too late to start the routine? Were you still breastfeeding at 9 mths? Appreciate your advice. Thanks in advance, kat.

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  2. Hi kat!
    The book is Save our sleep by Tizzie Hall. We stopped breast feeding by 8 months or so. He was fully on formula by 9months.

    I'm no expert on this at all, but in my opinion better late than never? No harm giving it a go. Are you having problems with your little one ? Ive just been v lazy with blogging lately, but am Happy to share my experiences, email me if you like xx

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  3. hi kelly, it's me again. I've read the book and have some queries pls:↲↲

    1) how long does it take to implement the routine effectively? ↲

    2) the 7am to 7pm timing is not feasible in my household. Can the timing be tweaked? Will the routine still work?↲


    3) how did you teach your baby to self-settle? Mine is so used to rocking.↲


    4) should baby sleep in his own rm? I don't have a spare rm. Will the routine still work? ↲

    Appreciate your help :) apologies if the formatting is wrong. Am using my handphone to post the comment. ↲↲

    Take care, and warm regards to your family and little one.

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  4. Hi Kat!

    I'm really no expert in this area and we've been up and down with Kayden's sleeps for the past half year or so to be honest! Would you like to email me instead to chat about it? I'm happy to share my experiences for sure.

    kellylifewithamini@gmail.com

    xx

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